Psssttttt
Email from the man I switched costumes with on Halloween:
Him: Looking for a sexy blonde lesbian to take to a Christmas party......
Hmmmm let me think....YES!!!
This is going to be the BEST PARTY EVER.
Anyone willing to wear a superwoman costume wins eternal points of awesome as far as I am concerned.
Plus, he called me a sexy blonde lesbian.
Him: Looking for a sexy blonde lesbian to take to a Christmas party......
Hmmmm let me think....YES!!!
This is going to be the BEST PARTY EVER.
Anyone willing to wear a superwoman costume wins eternal points of awesome as far as I am concerned.
Plus, he called me a sexy blonde lesbian.
pssstttt *let's be friends forever*
My heaven
Me: Italian is such a romantic culture.....
Her: I wish I was French!
Me: Do you speak it?
Her: Not at all. I just love Parisian style! I also love the lifestyle there, so relaxed and lots of cheese!
Me: Amen! Haha, I LOVE Montreal. What a great city.......love everything about French culture.
Her: I wish I was French!
Me: Do you speak it?
Her: Not at all. I just love Parisian style! I also love the lifestyle there, so relaxed and lots of cheese!
Me: Amen! Haha, I LOVE Montreal. What a great city.......love everything about French culture.
Montreal.
My heaven.
My heaven.
Fwd:
SaturGay Paper
-7 months ago-
Me: Which one is better? Chocolate or vanilla?
Her: Chocolate
Me: Sounds good
-I curl all 3 newspapers together and tuck them under my arm as she hands me a bowl of vegan ice cream in a small pink dish-
I sit at a wooden table and carefully lay all the papers face down. I strategically take the paper about "Gay Pride Week" and insert it into the regular paper.
Believe me, the irony of this, does not escape me.
This is exactly why when a middle aged man recently told me my blog was "too gay" my first reaction was embarrassment..... followed by a considerate amount of consideration..... followed by anger.
There are a million blogs about being hetero!
There aren't a million blogs about being a 27 year old femme lesbian fashion designer. And I suspect (due to it's recent soar in popularity) that for a lot of LGBT people this blog has become a home for them and perhaps a place of refuge- the same way hiding my gay newspaper inside another newspaper was my refuge once.
Me: Which one is better? Chocolate or vanilla?
Her: Chocolate
Me: Sounds good
-I curl all 3 newspapers together and tuck them under my arm as she hands me a bowl of vegan ice cream in a small pink dish-
I sit at a wooden table and carefully lay all the papers face down. I strategically take the paper about "Gay Pride Week" and insert it into the regular paper.
Believe me, the irony of this, does not escape me.
This is exactly why when a middle aged man recently told me my blog was "too gay" my first reaction was embarrassment..... followed by a considerate amount of consideration..... followed by anger.
There are a million blogs about being hetero!
There aren't a million blogs about being a 27 year old femme lesbian fashion designer. And I suspect (due to it's recent soar in popularity) that for a lot of LGBT people this blog has become a home for them and perhaps a place of refuge- the same way hiding my gay newspaper inside another newspaper was my refuge once.
So, Mr.
If my blog is "too gay" for you. Don't read it.
In the words of Mary Lambert, "I can't change, even if I tried. Even if I wanted to."
(this applies to me never wearing 2 socks that match and also to being a lesbian)
(Oh, and now I read my Gay Pride Week newspapers freely aaanywhere I damn well please;) haha)
It got better
2014:
This year, I learned to always be myself.
I thought when I came out I would be alone.
Deserted.
But I am surrounded with more people now than ever before in my life.
And the best part is they know exactly who and what I am.






